To my beloved Sista’s:
I love you. From the creative ways you think, smile, to your Boss ass career moves, and the way you hold down your household. I see you.
I know behind that smile are flaws, guilt, trauma, anger, and even some hurt but I want you to know that you’ve made it this far and that’s something to celebrate. You deserve to be protected, seen, heard, and loved. That’s only going to come when you decide to start loving yourself first.
I know everyday you wake up with the intention of having a great day. I also know you want the best for your family. I also know that living a meaningful and peaceful life is important to you.
I want you to know that the life you envision for yourself is possible and is not just a thought or a dream. You can do, have, and be anything you want. It’s not too late, you’re not too old, you’re not as unstable financially like you believe.
The only thing stopping you from that meaningful life are the thoughts you think and your willingness to endure the seasons of life.
So far this year you learned about the seasons of life, how do deal with your ANTS (automatic negative thoughts) and how you can start the healing and growth process in your life.
I’m so proud of you for hanging in there and participating. The more you participate, the more confidence you gain.
Remember this, as you’re walking this journey, don’t worry about what other people are saying or thinking. Those people who are judging don’t have shit going on and need something to talk about. Stop giving them your time and attention.
Focus on being the best you. Focus on making everyday of your life count. Focus on loving every part of you.
You’re doing a great job. If you need me, you know where to find me.
Love you,
Gloria